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4 reasons divorce and social media don’t mix

On Behalf of | Apr 2, 2023 | Divorce |

In the age of social media, it is almost impossible to avoid the influence of these platforms on our daily lives. While social media has brought about several positive changes, it has also brought about negative consequences, especially in divorce. 

Divorce is challenging for couples, and social media can exacerbate the stress and make the process even more challenging. Here are some reasons why divorce and social media don’t mix:

1. Social media fuels conflict

Social media can become a breeding ground for conflicts, arguments and even harassment during divorce proceedings. Individuals going through a divorce may post statements that can provoke the other party, leading to a cycle of negativity that can cause lasting damage.

2. It can affect custody battles

Social media has become a significant factor in custody battles. Parents may use their social media accounts to document their lives and portray themselves as better caregivers, negatively impacting the other parent’s case. Similarly, parents can be seen as unfit caregivers if they post inappropriate content, such as photos of drug or alcohol use.

3. It can impact financial settlements

Social media can provide valuable information in divorce proceedings. The information gathered from social media accounts can be used to determine the true value of assets, uncover hidden assets and provide evidence of financial impropriety. Conversely, social media accounts can also be used against individuals by providing evidence of reckless spending, financial irresponsibility, and even infidelity.

4. It can exacerbate emotional stress

Going through a divorce can be a difficult and emotional time. However, social media can intensify these emotions by providing constant reminders of the former spouse, their activities and even their new romantic partners. This can cause individuals to become depressed, anxious, and even hostile toward their former partner.

While social media can be a valuable tool for staying connected with loved ones, it can also fuel conflicts, affect custody battles, impact financial settlements and exacerbate emotional stress. During divorce proceedings, it is essential to limit social media use, avoid posting sensitive information, and be mindful of the content posted on social media accounts.