If you and your spouse are moving toward a divorce, you may want to close your shared bank account. Generally, couples will empty their joint account and start new individual accounts where they can deposit their paychecks moving forward. However, it’s important to...
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New York cannot grant legal separations – here is an alternative
While New York does not grant legal separations, couples can achieve similar results through a separation agreement. It is a legally binding document allowing spouses to outline their separation terms while remaining married. Separation agreements can help New...
Tips for going through a divorce with a narcissist
The process of divorce is one that’s challenging and complex, even if you and your ex are amicable. If you have an ex who’s a narcissist, the process is going to be even more difficult. One of the classic traits of a narcissist is that they’re self-absorbed. They...
Does being wealthy have an impact on divorce odds?
Financial troubles and financial stress are often cited as predictors of divorce. A couple that experiences a higher number of financial problems is more likely to split up. The relationship itself is simply stressed because it’s difficult for the couple to make ends...
Common mistakes to avoid when drafting a prenuptial agreement
A prenuptial agreement (prenup) does more than outline how you will divide assets in the event of a divorce. You can use this legally binding document to protect yourself from unnecessary debt and clarify financial responsibilities during the marriage. However, you...
Why you should go to counseling during divorce
Counseling during divorce can seem counteractive – why would you seek help regarding a relationship that has ended? Divorce counseling can be beneficial for divorcing couples. You and your spouse can attend joint sessions, or you can do this alone. Here is why it's...
Can you keep your marital standard of living after divorce?
Unless a divorcing couple can negotiate their own alimony (spousal maintenance) agreement with the help of their legal teams, a judge will determine the amount, terms and duration. These are based on a number of factors. Under New York law, this includes how long the...
Has gaslighting become an issue in your marriage?
Gaslighting is a phrase that’s used in numerous contexts. In a nutshell, it means manipulating someone to question their own perception of reality. This is something that can happen between married couples, and it can often tread the line into becoming emotional...
Potential reasons for a default divorce
A default divorce can be used by the court, essentially ruling that the divorce is being granted even though only one person is present in court. As a general rule, the court will then “default” to that person’s preferences. There won’t be a debate over how to divide...
What factors determine if something is separate property?
The two main categories for assets during a divorce are marital property and separate property. If something is separate property, it belongs to one person or the other individually. If something is marital property, it is owned by both of them and needs to be split...