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Tips for communication as co-parents

On Behalf of | Nov 6, 2023 | Child Custody |

Effective communication between co-parents is essential for the well-being of their children following a separation or divorce. It lays the groundwork for stability and security for the children involved. It’s not always easy, however.

Both parties might still be dealing with hurt, anger or betrayal. It’s vital to separate these personal feelings from the co-parenting relationship. Make sure that communication is always child-focused. Conversations should be about the children’s needs, schedules and well-being rather than personal grievances between the co-parents.

Use technology

Technology can be a great ally in co-parenting communication. There are several apps designed specifically for co-parents that organize everything from custody schedules to medical information. Keep a record of agreements, whether about changes to the visitation schedule or education decisions. This can minimize misunderstandings and keep both parents informed.

Listen actively

Active listening is a critical component of effective communication. This means hearing what the other parent is saying, considering their perspective and responding thoughtfully. It’s not just about waiting for your turn to speak. Your children can learn a lot if they see you and your co-parent utilizing appropriate communication skills.

Staying consistent

Consistency in rules and parenting styles between households helps children feel secure. Co-parents should communicate to ensure they’re on the same page regarding bedtimes, homework, screen time, and disciplinary approaches.

Having the framework set for your co-parenting communication is critical. This can help to keep both adults on the same page so they can handle matters for the children. Ideally, everything you need to know will be included in the parenting plan.