Financial preparation is crucial when facing a gray divorce, which refers to the dissolution of a marriage involving individuals over 50 -- generally after a long marriage. This life transition can be challenging emotionally and financially, but with careful planning,...
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When can I stop paying alimony in New York?
If you are headed for a divorce, there is a chance the court will direct one spouse to pay spousal maintenance. This payment is intended to mitigate the economic effects of the divorce by ensuring that the receiving party maintains a standard of living that equates to...
Will co-parenting work for you?
Divorcing parents always have numerous decisions to make regarding their children, including how to raise them. Most parents choose to co-parent, as it allows the kids to maintain a relationship with both of them, in addition to other benefits. But does it work for...
What are automatic orders in a New York divorce?
Many people don't know this, but when couples begin the divorce process in New York, they are already under orders by a family court. These automatic orders are legally binding and go into effect upon the commencement of a divorce action. Both parties must follow...
Should you take alimony as a lump sum?
The general point of alimony is simply to provide support for someone who would suddenly be lacking it because of their divorce. It’s not to punish the other spouse. It’s just to ensure that one person isn’t destitute after the divorce. For instance, maybe you got...
4 reasons divorce and social media don’t mix
In the age of social media, it is almost impossible to avoid the influence of these platforms on our daily lives. While social media has brought about several positive changes, it has also brought about negative consequences, especially in divorce. Divorce is...
The risks of being negative about your ex in front of your kids
As you and your children’s other parent navigate the process of unraveling your romantic relationship, sometimes the last thing you want to do is talk to them. In fact, if you could, you might prefer to have nothing to do with them again. It can often be really...
Can kids handle rule variations between divorced parents?
One of the positives of divorcing is that you become free to do things the way you want to. But what about when you have kids? You may have read that children need stability and that constant boundaries help to provide it. Does that mean you need to agree to one set...
When should you change a child custody order?
After divorce, many couples have to work out a child custody order. This arrangement allows parents to continue their obligations and responsibilities to their children. Parents may agree on when they have visitation rights, where their child lives, what kind of...
What are the signs that my spouse is considering divorce?
Divorce can be a complex and emotional process for everyone involved. It can be especially challenging if you're unsure if your spouse is considering ending the marriage. While many factors can contribute to the breakdown of a marriage, there are also several signs...