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Tips for going through a divorce with a narcissist

On Behalf of | Oct 25, 2024 | Divorce |

The process of divorce is one that’s challenging and complex, even if you and your ex are amicable. If you have an ex who’s a narcissist, the process is going to be even more difficult. 

One of the classic traits of a narcissist is that they’re self-absorbed. They can’t think of anyone but themselves and often live in a world they’ve fabricated for themselves.

Control your emotions

A person with narcissism often tries to control the emotions and reactions of those around them. They get power from being able to do that, so it’s typically best for you to keep a straight face around them. If you’re an emotional person, it might be a good idea to use a neutral third party to facilitate discussions. 

Keep proof of everything possible

Narcissists tend to lie, so you can’t count on them to ever tell the truth. Instead, you have to ensure that you keep proof of everything possible. This can mean keeping copies of receipts for things you pay for that are directly related to the divorce or the children. You also may need copies of communication with your ex. 

Your ex may also try to prolong the divorce, partly because they think that it will harm you financially and emotionally. Working with someone who’s familiar with this type of divorce may be beneficial so they can help to curtail some aspects of it. They may have tactics and techniques to use that will help to get things handled efficiently.