Some people see divorce coming, while others are caught off-guard. Should your spouse ask for a divorce, it’s critical that you take a step back, assess the situation and implement a plan for moving forward.
There are a variety of important questions to answer if your spouse asks for a divorce. Start with these:
- How will you protect your legal rights during the process? In addition to understanding the process, you can consult with an attorney who will put your well-being above all else.
- How will the divorce impact your children? Your children are more important to you than anything, so put them first as you go through divorce. They’re facing just as many challenges as you.
- What’s the best way to protect your financial well-being? There’s no single answer to this question. For example, you’ll need to focus on everything from property and debt division to child support and alimony. If it has anything to do with your finances, tackle it as soon as possible.
- What are you looking to accomplish with respect to child custody? Maybe you realize early on that you want to fight for physical custody of your children. Or maybe you’re okay with the idea of having visitation rights, as long as the arrangement is fair to you and your children. Knowing the approach you want to take is crucial to your success in this area.
- What does your post-divorce budget look like? The sooner you start thinking about this, the better off you’ll be. Even if it’s only an outline of your income and monthly bills, it’s a good start. Without a post-divorce budget, you’ll find yourself making rash decisions that may not suit you best.
Divorce will change your life in many ways, but remember this: You can get back on track in the future.
By answering these questions, you’re putting yourself in position to avoid complications and challenges that have the potential to bog you down.
Your goal is to do whatever it takes to efficiently make it through the divorce process, all while protecting your legal rights and preparing for the future.